She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Depends on the situation. But, man, you focus on each other. The movie is for when you get bored with her (Lol).duckbutt said:hey guys when u and a girl are watching a movie at ur house or hers.... what do u do?? do u watch the movie while cuddling with her or what??? ive been wondering about this
lolgodsgifttowomen said:Her. :yes:
LOL myself.Ashley Chuckles said:Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.Ashley Chuckles said:Seriously... what you do when you're next to a chick watching a movie is the oldest move in the book... you're just over-thinking this and worrying about it, it's simple!
Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
Oh my god.... i would give my life savings for a night like that, lol.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
realsmoothie said:OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.