Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when she comes over to ur house to watch a movie

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hey guys when u and a girl are watching a movie at ur house or hers.... what do u do?? do u watch the movie while cuddling with her or what??? ive been wondering about this
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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duckbutt said:
hey guys when u and a girl are watching a movie at ur house or hers.... what do u do?? do u watch the movie while cuddling with her or what??? ive been wondering about this
Depends on the situation. But, man, you focus on each other. The movie is for when you get bored with her (Lol).

Actually, the movie is an excuse to get close. Yeah, you may watch the movie if you're not at the "make a move" point, but you still get physical with her; of course, it's different with friends.
 

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Her. :yes:
lol

Turn off all the lights, tell her to sit on the couch, get her a drink (soda, beer, wine, what the fvck ever), pop in the movie, plop down next to her VERY close where your shoulders are touching. Watch about 15 in just lean over and kiss her on the lips and watch her reaction. If she likes it, she'll smile. You can choose to keep going at this point or lean over and kiss her again a few minutes later. You've gotta just do it. I know it's tough, but you've gotta do it if you want some play. If she turns her cheek, or won't let you kiss her, then you're done. Watch the movie and kick her out. I've even just turned the lights back on and sat on the other end of the couch and finished the movie. :cheer:
 

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Seriously... what you do when you're next to a chick watching a movie is the oldest move in the book... you're just over-thinking this and worrying about it, it's simple!

Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!

Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
 

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Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
LOL myself.

I ALWAYS finish the movie... being a kind of film nut myself, not finishing the damn thing somehow feels wrong.

Anyhow... if you sit there mildly kino-ing a girl for a whole hour-and-a-half... she's going to be wetter than heck by the time it's over!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ashley Chuckles said:
Seriously... what you do when you're next to a chick watching a movie is the oldest move in the book... you're just over-thinking this and worrying about it, it's simple!

Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!

Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
Oh my god.... i would give my life savings for a night like that, lol.
 

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realsmoothie said:
OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.

we were just flippin channels and landed on 40 yr old virigin, laughed a tone scene and i kissed her on the couch and she got so into it, basically she initiated the real sexual part, i just kissed her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my last girlfriend. first time we met, took her to friends house (no one was home) watched a movie, layed down on a beanbag close to each other and i got up to go have a leak and planted one on her. 1 hour into the movie. that easy. by the end of the night she was naked.
 
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