"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
when she comes over to ur house to watch a movie
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Depends on the situation. But, man, you focus on each other. The movie is for when you get bored with her (Lol).duckbutt said:hey guys when u and a girl are watching a movie at ur house or hers.... what do u do?? do u watch the movie while cuddling with her or what??? ive been wondering about this
Actually, the movie is an excuse to get close. Yeah, you may watch the movie if you're not at the "make a move" point, but you still get physical with her; of course, it's different with friends.
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lolgodsgifttowomen said:Her. :yes:
Turn off all the lights, tell her to sit on the couch, get her a drink (soda, beer, wine, what the fvck ever), pop in the movie, plop down next to her VERY close where your shoulders are touching. Watch about 15 in just lean over and kiss her on the lips and watch her reaction. If she likes it, she'll smile. You can choose to keep going at this point or lean over and kiss her again a few minutes later. You've gotta just do it. I know it's tough, but you've gotta do it if you want some play. If she turns her cheek, or won't let you kiss her, then you're done. Watch the movie and kick her out. I've even just turned the lights back on and sat on the other end of the couch and finished the movie. :cheer:
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Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
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LOL myself.Ashley Chuckles said:Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
I ALWAYS finish the movie... being a kind of film nut myself, not finishing the damn thing somehow feels wrong.
Anyhow... if you sit there mildly kino-ing a girl for a whole hour-and-a-half... she's going to be wetter than heck by the time it's over!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.Ashley Chuckles said:Seriously... what you do when you're next to a chick watching a movie is the oldest move in the book... you're just over-thinking this and worrying about it, it's simple!
Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
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OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
Oh my god.... i would give my life savings for a night like that, lol.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
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realsmoothie said:OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.
we were just flippin channels and landed on 40 yr old virigin, laughed a tone scene and i kissed her on the couch and she got so into it, basically she initiated the real sexual part, i just kissed her.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.