"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
when she comes over to ur house to watch a movie
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Depends on the situation. But, man, you focus on each other. The movie is for when you get bored with her (Lol).duckbutt said:hey guys when u and a girl are watching a movie at ur house or hers.... what do u do?? do u watch the movie while cuddling with her or what??? ive been wondering about this
Actually, the movie is an excuse to get close. Yeah, you may watch the movie if you're not at the "make a move" point, but you still get physical with her; of course, it's different with friends.
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lolgodsgifttowomen said:Her. :yes:
Turn off all the lights, tell her to sit on the couch, get her a drink (soda, beer, wine, what the fvck ever), pop in the movie, plop down next to her VERY close where your shoulders are touching. Watch about 15 in just lean over and kiss her on the lips and watch her reaction. If she likes it, she'll smile. You can choose to keep going at this point or lean over and kiss her again a few minutes later. You've gotta just do it. I know it's tough, but you've gotta do it if you want some play. If she turns her cheek, or won't let you kiss her, then you're done. Watch the movie and kick her out. I've even just turned the lights back on and sat on the other end of the couch and finished the movie. :cheer:
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Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
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LOL myself.Ashley Chuckles said:Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
I ALWAYS finish the movie... being a kind of film nut myself, not finishing the damn thing somehow feels wrong.
Anyhow... if you sit there mildly kino-ing a girl for a whole hour-and-a-half... she's going to be wetter than heck by the time it's over!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.Ashley Chuckles said:Seriously... what you do when you're next to a chick watching a movie is the oldest move in the book... you're just over-thinking this and worrying about it, it's simple!
Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
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OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
Oh my god.... i would give my life savings for a night like that, lol.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
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realsmoothie said:OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.
we were just flippin channels and landed on 40 yr old virigin, laughed a tone scene and i kissed her on the couch and she got so into it, basically she initiated the real sexual part, i just kissed her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.