Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When she asks "what did you do last weekend?"
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CrunchyNut
Don Juan
Have you been reading my diary?onyx said:
On a serious note, this is your chance to tell a story. You must have done something interesting over the weekend. What was it?
I usually don't go out with tons of friends, so when talking to a girl, this is the only question I hope she doesn't bring up. Because what ever I'm going to say, it won't be "I went to a sick party"...and she won't think good of me. That's how I see it.
Any advice of how to avoid / have a good reply to this question?
Thank you.
Why the hell are you fooling around doing nothing on weekends anyway?
If you don't use this too often with the same person, you can just say that you rested after having a stressful work week or w/e
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
lol funny thing is I've done said something similar too. "I Jerking off all saturday night."onyx said:
She was actually curious as to whether I was serious or not and then asked me if I really jerk off, and it turned into a nice sexual talk.
Thing to keep in mind is just keep it playful, you can always give a fake answer and then a real one, and it will mainly come out good anyway.
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Generally? No, I don't.
Women aren't interested in anything I do. Am I supposed to start doing things I don't care for just to be interesting to them? Take up sailing or yoga or some bullsh1t?
I lift weights. -> they don't care except for the results. hell they even b1tch about my diet and that my diet will make me sick because they haven't the slightest clue about nutrition. Nevermind that i never get sick.
I play softball. -> they don't care
I play video games -> they don't care
I write software -> they don't care
I watch football and hockey -> they don't care
I read books. -> no one reads books so they don't care
They don't give two ****s about what I do in my free time and have no desire to talk about it. Except for the RARE girl that cares about maybe 1 or 2 of those things herself. And that's usually an ugly girl because she was forced to find something to do other than partying and going out because she wasn't popular.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You're sarging the wrong women, point blank. Why waste time on women who don't have common interests with you?mrRuckus said:
From your list I can say that I am seeing three women who enjoys and are active in almost everything on your list. Two of the three who aren't into video games and as for software development, nobody is interested in that.
typical
Master Don Juan
But then again alot of thins I do dont interest her either, like going to the drags on friday and saturday nights and lining up my car against the other fellas. That sort of stuff, she likes to hear the stories anout but I can tell shes just oogling at some various body part/s and waiting for me to stop and start making out LOL
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Making up some stuff you didn't do during the weekend is just as bad as coming up with lame pick up lines. Go out there and do actual stuff and then you will have things to talk about.banGbro said:
If every weekend consists of staying home alone and spending it on the computer/television then lying about it to a chick will not change the situation in your life.
FIRST GET A REAL LIFE AND THEN GET THE GIRL TO TAG ALONG.
Just to add one more thing: if she is asking about what you did during the weekend consider that as her being interested and there is little you can do to mess this answer up. It is the rest of your conversation skills and increasing her interest in you is what you should be concerned. In actuality she doesn't really care what you did during the weekend but she most likely cares about how you make her feel and act towards her as your speak.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Maybe there should be a RUP for dating... Hmmmm......eko said:
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.