When She Asks "Do You Want To Know Why I'm SO Attracted to You?"

[bigneil]

I had my favorite girl ask me this recently but I was so content at the time I didn't even have a reaction.

I thought "You're SO attracted to me?? Who needs a reason!?"

In a way I wish she would have told me the reason(s) - God knows I need all the help I can get. But wouldn't my asking have been approval-seeking behavior? Should we ever ask a woman why she's attracted to us?

 

[Who Dares Win]

I admitt that would have confused me as well in terms of reaction, asking means buying her frame and as you said show approval seeking behaviour.

A ****y responce like "cant really tell I have so many qualities" while satisfy the general rules, doesnt sound great to me either.

I guess I would opt for the "ignore and move to other" tactics that I use anytime Im confused or smell sh1t tests from a woman.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

[slight smirk] "Because I'm so hot, charming, and humble?"

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I would've said:

"Nah I already know the reasons why" smile; change the subject.








PIMP

 

[Zarky]

I disagree with the prior posters. Assuming she's not f*cking with you and was going to actually tell you positive things about you, it could only work to your advantage to have her list them off.

Look up "cognitive dissonance." When you have a girl list positive traits about you, she starts to believe them.

They did this in communist "re-education" camps back during the cold war. They'd take prisoners and make them write about why communism was so awesome. After you write a few essays like that -- even if there's a gun to your head forcing you to do it -- you start to believe what you've written.

 

[Atom Smasher]

One of the few times I fully agree with Z. I would simply say, "Yeah, why?" and let her self-confirm my wonderfulness. The more she verbalizes that stuff, the better.

Remember, we men speak after we have formulated our thoughts. Women, on the other hand, formulate their thoughts by speaking. When she verbalizes how great you are, she is actually convincing herself and putting a period on it.

 

[Darth]

"Do You Want To Know Why I'm SO Attracted to You?"
"I guess. Only if you're quick." *sigh* "Yeah, OK- go ahead."

 

[Who Dares Win]

Remember, we men speak after we have formulated our thoughts. Women, on the other hand, formulate their thoughts by speaking. When she verbalizes how great you are, she is actually convincing herself and putting a period on it.

Worth as signature quote.

 

[betheman]

"Do You Want To Know Why I'm SO Attracted to You?"


"well, you're only human"

 

[QuadDeuces]

Instead of her telling it show her:

"Shut up" *unbuckle* "now work it btch"
With a smile ofcourse.

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