"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When she admits that her mood swings destroy opportunities but still loves you.

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So the woman that I am currently battling with admits that she's moody and takes away great opportunities to be in a relationship in an instant.

But felt sorry and is willing to love you.

What would you do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I used to give girls points for admitting their shortcomings. I don't do that anymore. Awareness is the first step towards improvement, but most aren't serious about getting better. They can figure it out on somebody elses dime, not mine. I don't have the patience anymore. Life is too short to deal with a bunch of schitt.
 
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Howiestern said:
I used to give girls points for admitting their shortcomings. I don't do that anymore. Awareness is the first step towards improvement, but most aren't serious about getting better. They can figure it out on somebody elses dime, not mine. I don't have the patience anymore. Life is too short to deal with a bunch of schitt.
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Hmmmm

It looks like this one depends on a personal point of view :D

But thanks for your input, I appreciate it :)
 
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Are you dating this woman? Are you trying to get a first date? Is she a crush? A girlfriend? Please try and be more clear in your posts so the board may better assist you.
 
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amaterasu said:
So the woman that I am currently battling with admits that she's moody and takes away great opportunities to be in a relationship in an instant.

But felt sorry and is willing to love you.

What would you do?
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Run away as fast as possible
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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People will tell you who they are, you just have to listen...

Her telling you this is basically saying... "I get to act like a complete bish sometimes, and you just have to accept it"

If you are willing to accept it, then proceed. Otherwise, you know hwat to do!
 
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Walk away. She’s telling you about the clusterfvck you will soon face if you stay.
She takes away great opportunities in an instant ?
She’s emotionally unstable regardless of what she says.
 
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So she's not very emotionally intelligent? I don't know where females got the reputation of being emotionally intelligent.

Ask her if she's good at multitasking.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BeExcellent said:
Are you dating this woman? Are you trying to get a first date? Is she a crush? A girlfriend? Please try and be more clear in your posts so the board may better assist you.
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We both tried to get a first official date but failed because of her mood swings.

But we already met, talked, etc. and because of that we developed our feelings.

We are in the courting stage right now, but I am sure 100% she loves me through the signals that she has given me.

I am 95% almost complete to close the deal with this woman.

All I need are dates to establish a personal bond.

We communicate through pm and call but not for long conversations.

Just to ask her out for dinner and drinks :)
 
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Roober said:
People will tell you who they are, you just have to listen...

Her telling you this is basically saying... "I get to act like a complete bish sometimes, and you just have to accept it"

If you are willing to accept it, then proceed. Otherwise, you know hwat to do!
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Aren't all woman like that? joke :D

Yes, she is telling me who she is without me asking.

I am willing to give her a chance and see if see changes over time.

I am 95% done to seal the deal with her anyway.
 
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deesade said:
They all are.



How attractive is she?

How fun is she?

Are you in danger of getting loved up like a dweeb? If so, RED FLAG RUN AWAY FROM THE PRETTY GIRL.

If not, just bang her and have some fun.

But dear god never stress over women. Never stress.
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They are all nuts of course :D

Yeah she is attractive, I am a choosy guy so I seldom go 100% when it comes to women.

She always laughs at my mild jokes :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just say no.

Ask her WHY she does this. If she has insight into it, and resins coherently, ask her what she is going to do to change that.

People who lack insight can't develop a plan for change. People who can't plan out how to change are never going to change.

If you want a female that is going to push, pull, hot, cold and generally leave you confused, and waster a lot of your time before she discards you, she's the one!
 
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she cray cray...ray ray!
 
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dude99 said:
I would have to agree with this. She is basically telling you upfront she is going to treat you like shït so it won't be a shocker when she does.
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Yes. One of my ex’s laughingly smirked about one of her ex’s that complained about being manhandled… I was a different man and that bs wouldn’t happen to me… No
LISTEN
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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