"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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when she acts like nothing happened

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princesimba

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So say:

A girl disrespects you (completely ignores you for a week)

and then a few weeks later acts like nothing wrong ever happened (re-establishes contact "Hey! I missed you how;ve you been!" kinda stuff)

How are youu supposed to respond when she's:

1)Someone you can ignore (met her through a club)
2)Someone in your workplace
3)a friend you regularly meet up (with other friends)
4) girlfriend

or any other situation you can think of. Im not really interested in the exact response im more curious about the attitude one should be having
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol kind of the same thing happened to me today. This girl was obsessed with me and we started messing around and than she went in to ***** mode and i told her off and established no contact. 3 weeks later shes snapchatting me lol.
 
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You act as if indeed, nothing happened, and all is normal. No need to slingshot yourself back to AFCville.
 
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VladPatton said:
You act as if indeed, nothing happened, and all is normal. No need to slingshot yourself back to AFCville.
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care to explain what you exactly u mean? :D
 
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princesimba said:
So say:

A girl disrespects you (completely ignores you for a week)

and then a few weeks later acts like nothing wrong ever happened (re-establishes contact "Hey! I missed you how;ve you been!" kinda stuff)

How are youu supposed to respond
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You don't respond.

She has no real interest in you, but is just short some attention and/or validation and is looking to fill the void. Don't worry, when the next shiny object catches her eye, she'll drop you like a rock once again. Repeat process.

Save yourself the trouble and just avoid girls who go hot/cold. Never once had anything good come from girls like this and wasted far too much of my 20's stressing over them, being led on, and strung along.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The best way to deal with these girls is to continue NC. If they force themselves upon you at work, just give very blunt answers and comments. Minimize the social interaction and then continue with NC.
 
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