"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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when she acts like nothing happened

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princesimba

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So say:

A girl disrespects you (completely ignores you for a week)

and then a few weeks later acts like nothing wrong ever happened (re-establishes contact "Hey! I missed you how;ve you been!" kinda stuff)

How are youu supposed to respond when she's:

1)Someone you can ignore (met her through a club)
2)Someone in your workplace
3)a friend you regularly meet up (with other friends)
4) girlfriend

or any other situation you can think of. Im not really interested in the exact response im more curious about the attitude one should be having
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol kind of the same thing happened to me today. This girl was obsessed with me and we started messing around and than she went in to ***** mode and i told her off and established no contact. 3 weeks later shes snapchatting me lol.
 
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You act as if indeed, nothing happened, and all is normal. No need to slingshot yourself back to AFCville.
 
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VladPatton said:
You act as if indeed, nothing happened, and all is normal. No need to slingshot yourself back to AFCville.
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care to explain what you exactly u mean? :D
 
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princesimba said:
So say:

A girl disrespects you (completely ignores you for a week)

and then a few weeks later acts like nothing wrong ever happened (re-establishes contact "Hey! I missed you how;ve you been!" kinda stuff)

How are youu supposed to respond
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You don't respond.

She has no real interest in you, but is just short some attention and/or validation and is looking to fill the void. Don't worry, when the next shiny object catches her eye, she'll drop you like a rock once again. Repeat process.

Save yourself the trouble and just avoid girls who go hot/cold. Never once had anything good come from girls like this and wasted far too much of my 20's stressing over them, being led on, and strung along.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The best way to deal with these girls is to continue NC. If they force themselves upon you at work, just give very blunt answers and comments. Minimize the social interaction and then continue with NC.
 
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