when she acts like nothing happened

[princesimba]

So say:

A girl disrespects you (completely ignores you for a week)

and then a few weeks later acts like nothing wrong ever happened (re-establishes contact "Hey! I missed you how;ve you been!" kinda stuff)

How are youu supposed to respond when she's:

1)Someone you can ignore (met her through a club)
2)Someone in your workplace
3)a friend you regularly meet up (with other friends)
4) girlfriend

or any other situation you can think of. Im not really interested in the exact response im more curious about the attitude one should be having

 

[SirFratserlot]

Lol kind of the same thing happened to me today. This girl was obsessed with me and we started messing around and than she went in to ***** mode and i told her off and established no contact. 3 weeks later shes snapchatting me lol.

 

[VladPatton]

You act as if indeed, nothing happened, and all is normal. No need to slingshot yourself back to AFCville.

 

[princesimba]

You act as if indeed, nothing happened, and all is normal. No need to slingshot yourself back to AFCville.

care to explain what you exactly u mean?

 

[the_stig]

So say:

A girl disrespects you (completely ignores you for a week)

and then a few weeks later acts like nothing wrong ever happened (re-establishes contact "Hey! I missed you how;ve you been!" kinda stuff)

How are youu supposed to respond

You don't respond.

She has no real interest in you, but is just short some attention and/or validation and is looking to fill the void. Don't worry, when the next shiny object catches her eye, she'll drop you like a rock once again. Repeat process.

Save yourself the trouble and just avoid girls who go hot/cold. Never once had anything good come from girls like this and wasted far too much of my 20's stressing over them, being led on, and strung along.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

The best way to deal with these girls is to continue NC. If they force themselves upon you at work, just give very blunt answers and comments. Minimize the social interaction and then continue with NC.