Hi guys, as I wrote in my other posts I work with a lot of women and a funny thing is when they have a call they often don´t forget to mention something like "oh, my boyfriend is calling" as if everybody should be interested to know.. or when I was on my way home I met this girl I was on a date with a couple months ago, she was on the phone, I just waved at her, but she paused the call and wanted to talk for a bit, but also mentioned she was on the phone with her boyfriend, what I say to them is: "Tell him you love him.., come on, tell him.. " You should see their faces, one girl replied: "no, I don´t love him..". This is not any trick to get attraction, it´s just funny to watch their reactions.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When she´s got a call
- Thread starter John D
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
