Hi guys, as I wrote in my other posts I work with a lot of women and a funny thing is when they have a call they often don´t forget to mention something like "oh, my boyfriend is calling" as if everybody should be interested to know.. or when I was on my way home I met this girl I was on a date with a couple months ago, she was on the phone, I just waved at her, but she paused the call and wanted to talk for a bit, but also mentioned she was on the phone with her boyfriend, what I say to them is: "Tell him you love him.., come on, tell him.. " You should see their faces, one girl replied: "no, I don´t love him..". This is not any trick to get attraction, it´s just funny to watch their reactions.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When she´s got a call
- Thread starter John D
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
