"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when other guys get in your face

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i go to a small college and i've never really had trouble with this before but there is this one guy who gets really pissed off whenever i talk to a girl he knows. not going out with or anything, just knows her. for example at the bar he was sitting with 2 girls talking with them and i go up to talk to the girls too, because i know them from meeting them previously. he gets extremely offended and literally gets in my face and starts bumping into me wanting to fight me. now i didn't know this kid before this situation, except from a party when he was trying to start a verbal confrontation with me and i just ignored him b/c i didn't know him and just figured he was drunk.

anyway i just ignored him again and talked to the girls and he eventually stopped badgering me. i left to go talk with other people and 15 minutes later he comes up and wants to start it again. he gets more pissed off b/c i won't pay attention to him and about other 4 people got him to go sit down again. he was in my face asking me how fast i could run the mile, and how much i could lift.

fine i thought, maybe i stepped on his toes b/c he was going out with one of the girls. then last night same thing. i was talking to a girl and out of the blue this dood shows up again. now i've never even talked to this guy before so i really don't know what his problem is. and i don't know how to deal with this when i try and talk to girls and i don't know if this guy is going to show up or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wubbman

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Just kick his ass and get it over with.
 

justsomeguy1984

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This guy is obviously very insecure and feels threatend by you. Why the hell is he asking you how fast you can run the mile or how much you can lift? He is just making himself look like and idiot when he says something like that and he is definately losing the respect of any women who are around. Just laugh at this guy when he says stupid sh!t and that will just make him getter even madder and look even dumber. Fighting should be considered a last resort, and only if you are 100% confident that you could kick his a$s :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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