"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when other guys get in your face

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i go to a small college and i've never really had trouble with this before but there is this one guy who gets really pissed off whenever i talk to a girl he knows. not going out with or anything, just knows her. for example at the bar he was sitting with 2 girls talking with them and i go up to talk to the girls too, because i know them from meeting them previously. he gets extremely offended and literally gets in my face and starts bumping into me wanting to fight me. now i didn't know this kid before this situation, except from a party when he was trying to start a verbal confrontation with me and i just ignored him b/c i didn't know him and just figured he was drunk.

anyway i just ignored him again and talked to the girls and he eventually stopped badgering me. i left to go talk with other people and 15 minutes later he comes up and wants to start it again. he gets more pissed off b/c i won't pay attention to him and about other 4 people got him to go sit down again. he was in my face asking me how fast i could run the mile, and how much i could lift.

fine i thought, maybe i stepped on his toes b/c he was going out with one of the girls. then last night same thing. i was talking to a girl and out of the blue this dood shows up again. now i've never even talked to this guy before so i really don't know what his problem is. and i don't know how to deal with this when i try and talk to girls and i don't know if this guy is going to show up or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just kick his ass and get it over with.
 
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This guy is obviously very insecure and feels threatend by you. Why the hell is he asking you how fast you can run the mile or how much you can lift? He is just making himself look like and idiot when he says something like that and he is definately losing the respect of any women who are around. Just laugh at this guy when he says stupid sh!t and that will just make him getter even madder and look even dumber. Fighting should be considered a last resort, and only if you are 100% confident that you could kick his a$s :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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