"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When on tinder always do a video call first

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I am not an experienced tinder guy , as I was never really that interested in this channel , but as a word of advice always confirm the identity of the girl via a video call

women for some reason are experts when taking pictures , but they can not fake a video call

moved a couple of days to a new a city and thought that tinder would be a good way to explore a little bit the city . Matched with a girl that I thought she was cute and set up a date

in the moment she sat next to me , I just told her that I have diarrhea and have to go , then literally started running

horrible experience !

I also deleted the app

be wise guys and always confirm the identity with a girl via a video call
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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filtered pics, and insta links should be banned

imagine if you pictured yourself in a bathtub of 50 dollars, then turned up broke.

Women would be outraged
double standards :)

same with selfies . For women it is ok to take selfies , while for men it is forbidden

same with faking that you are good looking , when in reality you look like a troll

same with a lot of other stuff

but again , things are how they are , and one guy can not change them when there is an army full of thirsty men out there

what I can do is to adapt and overcome
 

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double standards :)

same with selfies . For women it is ok to take selfies , while for men it is forbidden

same with faking that you are good looking , when in reality you look like a troll

same with a lot of other stuff

but again , things are how they are , and one guy can not change them when there is an army full of thirsty men out there

what I can do is to adapt and overcome
yeah i know, the thing with selfies is it doesnt show your social status , which is attractive to women if its high. weird
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hahaha I can imagine you bolting with a fear for your life, OP.
 

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I came across a girl on the app yesterday that had as her main pic, a selfie in her bathroom, and there was a plate of fried chicken next to the sink.

@Bigpapa I had a professional photographer do some Tinder photos for me the other day. Gonna add them tomorrow.
They're not like, job interview poses or anything. Just some dope shots of me doing random sh!t
Like @Focal core puts it nicely , don”t forget the crash helmet lol
 

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my impression is that in most cases you have to let your standards way lower in order to get laid , rather than to keep them at a decent level

my experience is not that vast , but I never slept with more than a 6 using tinder
 

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my impression is that in most cases you have to let your standards way lower in order to get laid , rather than to keep them at a decent level

my experience is not that vast , but I never slept with more than a 6 using tinder
Im at my prime now.. I couldnt even banged below 6 anymore unless theyre putting strong effort / sucked me up at an extreme enthusiasm. Mostly online chicks doesnt appeal to me mostly due to theres nothing interesting about them, nothing going on with their life, full of girls doing entrapment either to support them emotionally and financially / cat fishing and whole lots of issues i wont and i dont want to dealt with
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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