"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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During sex...prone position...my chest fat looks terrible.
On my bed...im in push up position and my chest is not activated at all. Its mostly triceps holding me up.
Chest is flacid....fat hangs...
Sort of like when belly fat hangs.

I can do 60 push ups in a minute.
Been doing cable flys.

I heard dips is good for lower chest too.
Anybody overcame this problem? What did you do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's probably more a dietary issue however, on the exercise side, concentrate more on muscle building exercises like bench press, incline press, and dips. Your push ups and flys aren't a bad thing but they won't fill out the chest or change it's composition much. If you have lost some weight or maybe have some excess skin in that area, try supplementing some collagen and a plant substance called Gotu Kola. I've recommended this to women after pregnancy to tighten the skin with decent results. It can be a little rough on the liver so take the recommended dose.
 

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During sex...prone position...my chest fat looks terrible.
On my bed...im in push up position and my chest is not activated at all. Its mostly triceps holding me up.
Chest is flacid....fat hangs...
Sort of like when belly fat hangs.

I can do 60 push ups in a minute.
Been doing cable flys.

I heard dips is good for lower chest too.
Anybody overcame this problem? What did you do?
Fastest way to do this is the following combination, you’ll be a different man in 4-6 weeks:

This is two parts, fasting and High Intensity Interval Training. It’s the easiest, most effective, most free testosterone generation you can bang out and it’ll take you 18 minutes a day.

-10 all out sprints on the track, grass or a field, or if you can handle it a harder surface. You alternate pushups and sit ups immediately when you finish that sprint.
example, for someone who is starting and not used to cardio:
Sprint 20 yards -> drop right down and punch out (5/10 pushups) -> walk (and I mean walk don’t over train) -> wait one minute. Repeat for 10 sets.

As you get better you can extend this further. You will be lean, mean and you will love how you look and feel.

Dietary portion (this is more important than the physical portion) - this is also super easy - if you can fast 16-18 hours you can eat in the window that you allow for yourself. Don’t be a pig but again, don’t be a zealot either. When it is time to eat, you eat. Some people look at this as skipping breakfast, with lunch and dinner within 6 hours, and some people skip two meals.

Do the above each 6 days a week and give yourself Sunday off to be a little bit of a pig. You’ll feel great.

I got this from a navy seal, it absolutely works. I kept my weight room numbers exactly where they were even though I didn’t set foot in there for 100 days.
 

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This is my addition, start taking Tongkat Ali to help maintain your testosterone during your fasting.
 

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During sex...prone position...my chest fat looks terrible.
On my bed...im in push up position and my chest is not activated at all. Its mostly triceps holding me up.
Chest is flacid....fat hangs...
Sort of like when belly fat hangs.

I can do 60 push ups in a minute.
Been doing cable flys.

I heard dips is good for lower chest too.
Anybody overcame this problem? What did you do?
No such thing as spot reduction, you need to work on lowering your overall bodyfat percentage and you really have no control where your body decides to pull fat from first.

Every person has preferred fat storage areas that are different based on genetics.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Like others have said .... it’s body fat. You can do all the push-ups and dips you want. The fat will only vanish when your in a caloric deficit for enough time to deplete it.
 
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