Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When meeting girls in Lecture. (College)

Aspiring_DJ

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Hey guys i have a quick question about meeting girls and being a DJ in college. If i meet a girl in a lecture and use DJ techniques on her, how do i maintain the mystery and challenge strategy on her if i see her every class (assuming i sit with her).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Just don't blab on and on about yourself every time you see her. Make the conversations interesting and engaging.

This idea of being "a mystery" is completely over-rated and foolish. It only works on very immature girls. In the long run, you'll come across as creepy by constantly asking her questions about herself. It is transparent to the somewhat socially skilled woman. They see through it sooner or later.

Work on number closing her and seeing her outside of class privately. Forget about these inane "techniques".

It goes something like this:
confidence --> approach --> engage ---> attraction ---> number close
 

Incog

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Don't go to every class.

Missing college classes once in a while does no harm if you know when to miss them (not test days, etc.)
 

Aspiring_DJ

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so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.
 

The Master Disaster

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Just get her to meet you outside of class (ex. parties, study sessions, date...)

Once you get her to meet you outside of class, the deed is done and she is yours for the taking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Incog

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Aspiring_DJ said:
so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.
I'm not saying miss class to sit at home.

Pursue other things. You're supposed to be a busy guy.
 
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