"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When meeting girls in Lecture. (College)

Aspiring_DJ

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Hey guys i have a quick question about meeting girls and being a DJ in college. If i meet a girl in a lecture and use DJ techniques on her, how do i maintain the mystery and challenge strategy on her if i see her every class (assuming i sit with her).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Just don't blab on and on about yourself every time you see her. Make the conversations interesting and engaging.

This idea of being "a mystery" is completely over-rated and foolish. It only works on very immature girls. In the long run, you'll come across as creepy by constantly asking her questions about herself. It is transparent to the somewhat socially skilled woman. They see through it sooner or later.

Work on number closing her and seeing her outside of class privately. Forget about these inane "techniques".

It goes something like this:
confidence --> approach --> engage ---> attraction ---> number close
 

Incog

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Don't go to every class.

Missing college classes once in a while does no harm if you know when to miss them (not test days, etc.)
 

Aspiring_DJ

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so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.
 

The Master Disaster

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Just get her to meet you outside of class (ex. parties, study sessions, date...)

Once you get her to meet you outside of class, the deed is done and she is yours for the taking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Incog

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Aspiring_DJ said:
so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.
I'm not saying miss class to sit at home.

Pursue other things. You're supposed to be a busy guy.
 
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