"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When meeting girls in Lecture. (College)

Aspiring_DJ

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Hey guys i have a quick question about meeting girls and being a DJ in college. If i meet a girl in a lecture and use DJ techniques on her, how do i maintain the mystery and challenge strategy on her if i see her every class (assuming i sit with her).
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Just don't blab on and on about yourself every time you see her. Make the conversations interesting and engaging.

This idea of being "a mystery" is completely over-rated and foolish. It only works on very immature girls. In the long run, you'll come across as creepy by constantly asking her questions about herself. It is transparent to the somewhat socially skilled woman. They see through it sooner or later.

Work on number closing her and seeing her outside of class privately. Forget about these inane "techniques".

It goes something like this:
confidence --> approach --> engage ---> attraction ---> number close
 

Incog

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Don't go to every class.

Missing college classes once in a while does no harm if you know when to miss them (not test days, etc.)
 

Aspiring_DJ

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so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.
 

The Master Disaster

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Just get her to meet you outside of class (ex. parties, study sessions, date...)

Once you get her to meet you outside of class, the deed is done and she is yours for the taking.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Incog

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Aspiring_DJ said:
so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.
I'm not saying miss class to sit at home.

Pursue other things. You're supposed to be a busy guy.
 
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