When is the best time

[Black Widow Void]

Thanks for the advice. Although I’m not a complete noob, I understand that NO woman is “different” I literally was just giving the background on the first date and inquiring about whether it’d be a good idea to bring her along to the bars cuz I’m gonna be there this weekend anyways

I wouldn't advise that you bring her to your familiar hang-out just yet. Unless...
If appearance wise, she's a cut above the status-quo rest, this will not hurt your image one bit.
If you think that she's more average looking (and nothing wrong with that) I'd hold off. Even if she's more than a secksual interest, I'm sure that secks is still on your radar. Having drinks with her doesn't hurt, but beyond your control outside environments; when you are still getting to know her better can possibly work against you.

 

[Clamslammer]

Lmao keep up what current behavior??

Most girls do not want to meet your friends, family, dog, or cat unless you have been dating a while or in a relationship. If you go on a second date with your friends they will undoubtedly say or ask sonething stupid she is not emotionally ready to answer.

 

[MrJack]

Does not matter what you literally said. She knows you had a great time. She was there.
She sees it as you contacted first. Give her time to savor the experience. By date 4 she should be doing most of the initiating. 80/20

She texted me directly afterwards as well on bumble which I didn’t realize till after I texted her so she technically reached out first and basically said the same thing but I see what you’re saying

 

[MrJack]

You have to understand. Safety first. In my experience, during first date some of my girlfriends brought female and male friends. It depends on the person and where we went out. If the bar and disco, the girls brought some friend. However, if during day time and visiting the mall or movie theater, then, there was no friend of her company. The setting, the age, the background plays a lot.

But it feels weird that I wouldn’t bring a friend myself to the bar and club. If I’m going out drinking and she’s bringing friends it feels weird that I wouldn’t too in that situation

 

[Suave88]

But it feels weird that I wouldn’t bring a friend myself to the bar and club. If I’m going out drinking and she’s bringing friends it feels weird that I wouldn’t too in that situation

I speak for myself and I ask you?
You want to be looked like the guy who controls 2 chicks and attracts others in the bar/club or you wanna end like a Donkey?
You don't have any friends.... No body likes.
But you don't believe me and you will find out the hard way.
In this life, personal relationships don't exist. All is pure hypocrisy.

 

[Trump]

...to have a girl meet your friends and vice versa?

You have to sleep with her first.

I texted her when I got home that I had a good time and let’s do it again yada yada and her interest level seems high.

You texted her you had a good time? I wouldn’t have done that. She has to text you.

Do I invite her and a friend to the bar with a bunch of my friends this weekend for the second date or bad idea?

Way bad idea. Too many things can go wrong, Your friends will sleep with her instead of you.

I wouldn’t introduce any girl to my friends unless she is pregnant.