"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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elite7

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would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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elite7 said:
would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
I don't agree with people comparing marriage to prostitution. I know this is de riguer with the PUA circle, but it's not a fair comparison. The purpose of marriage has always been to create a family. The purpose of prostitution is to blow your load. How is that a comparison?
 

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elite7 said:
would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
Marriage is only prostitution if your wife is happier that you are dead than alive, so she can collect your estate
 

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Prostitution and girlfriends and marriages have different purposes and different emotional magnitudes but there is still an exchange in the sexual economy. Payment of sex in prostitution is front-end loaded, relationships and marriages are back-end loaded. Even "free" sex is often not free when opportunity costs are factored. I have yet to be able to semantically separate marriage from prostitution under the classical legal definition of "the act or practice of being available for sex acts with another person in return for something of value."
 

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would any of u guys b willing 2 take on a sugar baby good point by the way
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rogue said:
Prostitution and girlfriends and marriages have different purposes and different emotional magnitudes but there is still an exchange in the sexual economy. Payment of sex in prostitution is front-end loaded, relationships and marriages are back-end loaded. Even "free" sex is often not free when opportunity costs are factored. I have yet to be able to semantically separate marriage from prostitution under the classical legal definition of "the act or practice of being available for sex acts with another person in return for something of value."
Under that definition, players are also johns.

Players provide something of value to the girl (fun) in exchange for the girl being available for a sex act.
 
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