You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't agree with people comparing marriage to prostitution. I know this is de riguer with the PUA circle, but it's not a fair comparison. The purpose of marriage has always been to create a family. The purpose of prostitution is to blow your load. How is that a comparison?elite7 said:would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
Marriage is only prostitution if your wife is happier that you are dead than alive, so she can collect your estateelite7 said:would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Under that definition, players are also johns.Rogue said:Prostitution and girlfriends and marriages have different purposes and different emotional magnitudes but there is still an exchange in the sexual economy. Payment of sex in prostitution is front-end loaded, relationships and marriages are back-end loaded. Even "free" sex is often not free when opportunity costs are factored. I have yet to be able to semantically separate marriage from prostitution under the classical legal definition of "the act or practice of being available for sex acts with another person in return for something of value."