"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
when is it paying 4 sex
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't agree with people comparing marriage to prostitution. I know this is de riguer with the PUA circle, but it's not a fair comparison. The purpose of marriage has always been to create a family. The purpose of prostitution is to blow your load. How is that a comparison?elite7 said:would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
Marriage is only prostitution if your wife is happier that you are dead than alive, so she can collect your estateelite7 said:would u consider getting married a form of prostitution how bout the new sugardaddy cougar trend
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Under that definition, players are also johns.Rogue said:Prostitution and girlfriends and marriages have different purposes and different emotional magnitudes but there is still an exchange in the sexual economy. Payment of sex in prostitution is front-end loaded, relationships and marriages are back-end loaded. Even "free" sex is often not free when opportunity costs are factored. I have yet to be able to semantically separate marriage from prostitution under the classical legal definition of "the act or practice of being available for sex acts with another person in return for something of value."
Players provide something of value to the girl (fun) in exchange for the girl being available for a sex act.