"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When is it okay to talk about sex with women

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I've started talking to this older lady.

She is very attractive and youthful for her age.

We get on really well and connect. Yesterday we were on the subject of sexual talk. She seemed very comfortable with it. She brought up the scene with Kim Bassinger in Basic instinct where she uncrossed her legs. From there she spoke about breasts and vaginas and seemed completely comfortable and at ease when talking about it to me.

Do I change the subject or carry on if she directs it and seems comfortable with it. Is sex a no-go subject.

Bear in mind when speaking to her she would flip her hair over head - like a hair toss - and would curl her hair behind her ears whilst talking to me and body directed at me.

How would you guys proceed - or not proceed. Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sharon Stone was Basic Instinct. Basinger was 9 1/2 weeks. And any time a woman brings up sex, not only do you go with the flow, you need to push the envelope with her because she's checking to see if you've got what it takes to turn her on. Don't be a crude moron though.
 
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Hal9000 said:
Sharon Stone was Basic Instinct. Basinger was 9 1/2 weeks. And any time a woman brings up sex, not only do you go with the flow, you need to push the envelope with her because she's checking to see if you've got what it takes to turn her on. Don't be a crude moron though.
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