"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When is it okay to talk about sex with women

will123

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I've started talking to this older lady.

She is very attractive and youthful for her age.

We get on really well and connect. Yesterday we were on the subject of sexual talk. She seemed very comfortable with it. She brought up the scene with Kim Bassinger in Basic instinct where she uncrossed her legs. From there she spoke about breasts and vaginas and seemed completely comfortable and at ease when talking about it to me.

Do I change the subject or carry on if she directs it and seems comfortable with it. Is sex a no-go subject.

Bear in mind when speaking to her she would flip her hair over head - like a hair toss - and would curl her hair behind her ears whilst talking to me and body directed at me.

How would you guys proceed - or not proceed. Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hal9000

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Sharon Stone was Basic Instinct. Basinger was 9 1/2 weeks. And any time a woman brings up sex, not only do you go with the flow, you need to push the envelope with her because she's checking to see if you've got what it takes to turn her on. Don't be a crude moron though.
 

will123

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Sharon Stone was Basic Instinct. Basinger was 9 1/2 weeks. And any time a woman brings up sex, not only do you go with the flow, you need to push the envelope with her because she's checking to see if you've got what it takes to turn her on. Don't be a crude moron though.
How would you push the envelope
 
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