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Like if you got a new toy or coat or good hair day...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
when is it OK to send her pic$?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Can we define a parameter here?
Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
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Give her some teaser.
I agree with El Payaso. But if you do send a picture, it should be once in a blue moon.
Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.
This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)
I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.
In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.
This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)
I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.
In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.