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Like if you got a new toy or coat or good hair day...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
when is it OK to send her pic$?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Can we define a parameter here?
Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
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Give her some teaser.
I agree with El Payaso. But if you do send a picture, it should be once in a blue moon.
Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.
This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)
I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.
In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.
This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)
I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.
In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.