"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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when is it OK to send her pic$?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Payaso

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Never. Call me a cynic but the less she knows what you're up to, the more you are on her mind which leads to more attraction.
 

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Can we define a parameter here?

Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
 

Berom

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I agree with El Payaso. But if you do send a picture, it should be once in a blue moon.

Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.

This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)

I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.

In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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