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Like if you got a new toy or coat or good hair day...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
when is it OK to send her pic$?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Can we define a parameter here?
Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
Like if I have a beautiful dalmatian and I take pics with it. It's harmless. ..it's friendly no?
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Give her some teaser.
I agree with El Payaso. But if you do send a picture, it should be once in a blue moon.
Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.
This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)
I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.
In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
Example: Say you two talk about how much you both love Star Wars on one of your dates. The next week you see a cool Star Wars shirt at a store and send her a pic with a caption, "Found you a Star Wars shirt, you nerd."
I think this would be acceptable, but I definitely wouldn't send her pics often.
This could just be my opinion, but I get the feeling that women don't respect a man who is taking/sending them pictures all the time. Seems like it's only acceptable for women. That's why I hardly ever reply back on Snapchat with a photo - I usually message them back (for those familiar with the app)
I think most men feel like sending pictures is a trading game - she sent me one, now I have to send her one, then she'll send me one again. This is juvenile and simply not true.
In my experience, the only time women really want you to send them a photo is when it's of your dog --- not your d*ck.
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