"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WHen introducing to a chick...

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say ur being introduced by a friend, or it's by the cold approach what do you usually do?
shake their hand?
cause i met this chick once, infront of abunch of parents, and i went up to her and shook her hand
and the parents are like wtf??
i asked my mum bout ti later, (she was there) and she said it's so formal and stupid
this was just a casual meeting

so what to do?
btw, i mostly know curry ppl and asians
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uh-oh. He said asains. Not long til Jakethasnake comes and posts.

No offence jake.

Well I dunno about you but I usaully do shake new peoples hands I meet. Maybe the parents were like 'wtf?' because they are her parents and some parents can be over protective with their kids? Just continue to the shake hand thing or even "HI-5!!" like Jt47319 said.. :rolleyes:
 
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well regarding the actual handshake
correct me where i'm wrong plz
is it upward facing palm
and then grip her hand, and move up and down?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
wow
does going down first make that much a difference?
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No. Not at all.

Guys, it doesn't matter. Your general attitude about life is what's going to attract a girl to you, not how you greet her the first time you meet her. Just be friendly and laid back. If you feel like shaking her hand, go for it. I've pulled off hugging girls I just met and they loved it.
 
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