"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WHen introducing to a chick...

evolvingnerd

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say ur being introduced by a friend, or it's by the cold approach what do you usually do?
shake their hand?
cause i met this chick once, infront of abunch of parents, and i went up to her and shook her hand
and the parents are like wtf??
i asked my mum bout ti later, (she was there) and she said it's so formal and stupid
this was just a casual meeting

so what to do?
btw, i mostly know curry ppl and asians
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Uh-oh. He said asains. Not long til Jakethasnake comes and posts.

No offence jake.

Well I dunno about you but I usaully do shake new peoples hands I meet. Maybe the parents were like 'wtf?' because they are her parents and some parents can be over protective with their kids? Just continue to the shake hand thing or even "HI-5!!" like Jt47319 said.. :rolleyes:
 

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well regarding the actual handshake
correct me where i'm wrong plz
is it upward facing palm
and then grip her hand, and move up and down?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
wow
does going down first make that much a difference?
No. Not at all.

Guys, it doesn't matter. Your general attitude about life is what's going to attract a girl to you, not how you greet her the first time you meet her. Just be friendly and laid back. If you feel like shaking her hand, go for it. I've pulled off hugging girls I just met and they loved it.
 
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