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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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evolvingnerd

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say ur being introduced by a friend, or it's by the cold approach what do you usually do?
shake their hand?
cause i met this chick once, infront of abunch of parents, and i went up to her and shook her hand
and the parents are like wtf??
i asked my mum bout ti later, (she was there) and she said it's so formal and stupid
this was just a casual meeting

so what to do?
btw, i mostly know curry ppl and asians
 

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Uh-oh. He said asains. Not long til Jakethasnake comes and posts.

No offence jake.

Well I dunno about you but I usaully do shake new peoples hands I meet. Maybe the parents were like 'wtf?' because they are her parents and some parents can be over protective with their kids? Just continue to the shake hand thing or even "HI-5!!" like Jt47319 said.. :rolleyes:
 

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well regarding the actual handshake
correct me where i'm wrong plz
is it upward facing palm
and then grip her hand, and move up and down?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
wow
does going down first make that much a difference?
No. Not at all.

Guys, it doesn't matter. Your general attitude about life is what's going to attract a girl to you, not how you greet her the first time you meet her. Just be friendly and laid back. If you feel like shaking her hand, go for it. I've pulled off hugging girls I just met and they loved it.
 
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