"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When im high or drunk I have sooo much confidence!

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I just notice that like when I went to this party along time ago I got high and drunk and I had sooooooooooooooooooooo much confidence that I was literay doing stuff Ill NEVER do like I was grapping girls randomly kissing them.Along time ago I would never ever smoke or drink but now im starting to do that,I just notice that when I smoke or drink where im high or drunk i'll be able to approach girls easy with confidence,natural and will let everything flow i won't be scared or nervous.So therefore does it happen to you guys when your high or drunk get extra confidence or good stuff happens?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just don't let it become a crutch, like I have. So many of my best conquests have been at parties that it's left my sober game shriveled up like a scrotum.
 

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Well, I started smoking weed in 6th grade (I had an older brother who corrupted me) so now when I smoke...i'm 22, I get all quiet and would much rather just smoke by myself.

When I drink, it all depends on the situation. I know what you mean though, it IS a confidence booster if i'm at a bar or so and i'm taking shots with my buddies, but sometimes if i'm at a chill party or just drinking with a few friends, it has the opposite effect.

That's just me though.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of curiosity, how many of those girls do you date regularly?
 

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Has anyone else figured out that dreamxhenry is the same troll dreamx that was banned about a month ago...

--Mission
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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weed does the opposite for me. i can't approach girls if i smoke because i get all paranoid/self-concsious
 

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T Money said:
Well, I started smoking weed in 6th grade (I had an older brother who corrupted me) so now when I smoke...i'm 22, I get all quiet and would much rather just smoke by myself.

When I drink, it all depends on the situation. I know what you mean though, it IS a confidence booster if i'm at a bar or so and i'm taking shots with my buddies, but sometimes if i'm at a chill party or just drinking with a few friends, it has the opposite effect.

That's just me though.
it does the same to me...
 

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You have to be wide awake.

If not you will just get tired and happy with relaxing in a corner. (Weed and Alch)

Other than that you will do more crazy things because you will not think about it before you do it. (This can obviously be a bad thing too.)

Do not let it become a crutch.
 

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Mission said:
Has anyone else figured out that dreamxhenry is the same troll dreamx that was banned about a month ago...

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umm no duh im dreamx i had got banned,but the administrator said im welcome back now.
 

dreamxhenry

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T Money said:
Well, I started smoking weed in 6th grade (I had an older brother who corrupted me) so now when I smoke...i'm 22, I get all quiet and would much rather just smoke by myself.

When I drink, it all depends on the situation. I know what you mean though, it IS a confidence booster if i'm at a bar or so and i'm taking shots with my buddies, but sometimes if i'm at a chill party or just drinking with a few friends, it has the opposite effect.

That's just me though.
my normal self is quiet,shy and nervous but when Im drunk or high its the oppiste im loud,not shy,confident,like a different person,too me it seems drugs and alchol are good for you,lol :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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