"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When im high or drunk I have sooo much confidence!

dreamxhenry

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I just notice that like when I went to this party along time ago I got high and drunk and I had sooooooooooooooooooooo much confidence that I was literay doing stuff Ill NEVER do like I was grapping girls randomly kissing them.Along time ago I would never ever smoke or drink but now im starting to do that,I just notice that when I smoke or drink where im high or drunk i'll be able to approach girls easy with confidence,natural and will let everything flow i won't be scared or nervous.So therefore does it happen to you guys when your high or drunk get extra confidence or good stuff happens?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just don't let it become a crutch, like I have. So many of my best conquests have been at parties that it's left my sober game shriveled up like a scrotum.
 

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Well, I started smoking weed in 6th grade (I had an older brother who corrupted me) so now when I smoke...i'm 22, I get all quiet and would much rather just smoke by myself.

When I drink, it all depends on the situation. I know what you mean though, it IS a confidence booster if i'm at a bar or so and i'm taking shots with my buddies, but sometimes if i'm at a chill party or just drinking with a few friends, it has the opposite effect.

That's just me though.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of curiosity, how many of those girls do you date regularly?
 

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Has anyone else figured out that dreamxhenry is the same troll dreamx that was banned about a month ago...

--Mission
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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weed does the opposite for me. i can't approach girls if i smoke because i get all paranoid/self-concsious
 

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T Money said:
Well, I started smoking weed in 6th grade (I had an older brother who corrupted me) so now when I smoke...i'm 22, I get all quiet and would much rather just smoke by myself.

When I drink, it all depends on the situation. I know what you mean though, it IS a confidence booster if i'm at a bar or so and i'm taking shots with my buddies, but sometimes if i'm at a chill party or just drinking with a few friends, it has the opposite effect.

That's just me though.
it does the same to me...
 

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You have to be wide awake.

If not you will just get tired and happy with relaxing in a corner. (Weed and Alch)

Other than that you will do more crazy things because you will not think about it before you do it. (This can obviously be a bad thing too.)

Do not let it become a crutch.
 

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Mission said:
Has anyone else figured out that dreamxhenry is the same troll dreamx that was banned about a month ago...

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umm no duh im dreamx i had got banned,but the administrator said im welcome back now.
 

dreamxhenry

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T Money said:
Well, I started smoking weed in 6th grade (I had an older brother who corrupted me) so now when I smoke...i'm 22, I get all quiet and would much rather just smoke by myself.

When I drink, it all depends on the situation. I know what you mean though, it IS a confidence booster if i'm at a bar or so and i'm taking shots with my buddies, but sometimes if i'm at a chill party or just drinking with a few friends, it has the opposite effect.

That's just me though.
my normal self is quiet,shy and nervous but when Im drunk or high its the oppiste im loud,not shy,confident,like a different person,too me it seems drugs and alchol are good for you,lol :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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