"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When I was 15, I was a chick magnet.

Tails

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Has anyone ever had this happen when they were young?

Because I was so young, I didn't think about girls as much as these days. I would go out to video game stores, play games all day, hang out the shopping center to look around. I never really cared about anything else. I use to go to the public library down here, and I kept meeting girls there when I didn't even do anything. They just kept on coming at me, hitting on me, flirting... I only noticed these things about a year ago, lol.

I think that if I was to be the same person now back then, I'd see a difference. You think less about girls, you probably get more hitting on you. But isn't that kinda cheating? Can't ignore the fact that us men, love our girls.

Maybe it's the way it's meant to be?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think back to my High school days and am like DAMN why didnt I act different. I had a GF for like 3 years and it got me no where. SO many girls use to hit on my and flirt and stuff but back then i didnt really care because i was so focused on my GF. I know now how stupid i was
 

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Mate,

Back in HS, you see the same chicks everyday, 5 days a week. Of course some of them will GROW to be attracted to you. They have a chance to get to know you etc. There are studies out there that proves that proximity and frequency leads to attraction.

When you left HS, the amount of HBs in your immediately circle increases as you go to university and then diminishes again when you leave uni.

Learn how to PU at bars.

I know a couple of cool guys for you to hang with in Perth. If you are interested in learning how to PU at bars, send me an email and I will get them to get in touch with you.
 

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Thanks for the offer, but I don't go to bars or anything like that. I prefer to be alone anyway.
 

Walk this Way

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Man, you need to dig the bars. I don't know who uniassign is, but he's offering you a golden opportunity, you should definitely take it up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's okay. I'm just not a bar/nightclub person. I really dislike those places. I'll be fine :)
 

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i'm a bar/nightclub person, think you could give me a way to contact taht guy u were talkin about?
 
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