Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When I was 15, I was a chick magnet.

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Has anyone ever had this happen when they were young?

Because I was so young, I didn't think about girls as much as these days. I would go out to video game stores, play games all day, hang out the shopping center to look around. I never really cared about anything else. I use to go to the public library down here, and I kept meeting girls there when I didn't even do anything. They just kept on coming at me, hitting on me, flirting... I only noticed these things about a year ago, lol.

I think that if I was to be the same person now back then, I'd see a difference. You think less about girls, you probably get more hitting on you. But isn't that kinda cheating? Can't ignore the fact that us men, love our girls.

Maybe it's the way it's meant to be?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think back to my High school days and am like DAMN why didnt I act different. I had a GF for like 3 years and it got me no where. SO many girls use to hit on my and flirt and stuff but back then i didnt really care because i was so focused on my GF. I know now how stupid i was
 

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Mate,

Back in HS, you see the same chicks everyday, 5 days a week. Of course some of them will GROW to be attracted to you. They have a chance to get to know you etc. There are studies out there that proves that proximity and frequency leads to attraction.

When you left HS, the amount of HBs in your immediately circle increases as you go to university and then diminishes again when you leave uni.

Learn how to PU at bars.

I know a couple of cool guys for you to hang with in Perth. If you are interested in learning how to PU at bars, send me an email and I will get them to get in touch with you.
 

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Thanks for the offer, but I don't go to bars or anything like that. I prefer to be alone anyway.
 

Walk this Way

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Man, you need to dig the bars. I don't know who uniassign is, but he's offering you a golden opportunity, you should definitely take it up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's okay. I'm just not a bar/nightclub person. I really dislike those places. I'll be fine :)
 

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i'm a bar/nightclub person, think you could give me a way to contact taht guy u were talkin about?
 
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