This of course is completely theoretical since I don't talk to women, but say I was able to strike up random conversation in a bookstore or something. After talking for about 5-10 mins how exactly do you leave with a number close without sounding like a weirdo/creep?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When/How do casually number close?
- Thread starter HardTimes
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Your fear of coming off as a "weirdo/creep" is holding you back man. You're a MAN that isn't afraid to portray his sexuality to the world. You need to go up and talk to these woman whether they know what your intentions are or not. You strike up a random conversation with an attractive girl, it wasn't chance, she knows what's up. Who cares? Being a man means you're not afraid of your sexuality. You act like having a d!ck is a bad thing. Go out and use it. And whats with this "theoretical" question BS, why the don't you talk to woman hm?
Count Chocola
Banned
How do you number close, when you don't have the car to take them on a date, or follow up?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.