This of course is completely theoretical since I don't talk to women, but say I was able to strike up random conversation in a bookstore or something. After talking for about 5-10 mins how exactly do you leave with a number close without sounding like a weirdo/creep?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When/How do casually number close?
- Thread starter HardTimes
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Your fear of coming off as a "weirdo/creep" is holding you back man. You're a MAN that isn't afraid to portray his sexuality to the world. You need to go up and talk to these woman whether they know what your intentions are or not. You strike up a random conversation with an attractive girl, it wasn't chance, she knows what's up. Who cares? Being a man means you're not afraid of your sexuality. You act like having a d!ck is a bad thing. Go out and use it. And whats with this "theoretical" question BS, why the don't you talk to woman hm?
Count Chocola
Banned
How do you number close, when you don't have the car to take them on a date, or follow up?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.