"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When/How do casually number close?

HardTimes

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This of course is completely theoretical since I don't talk to women, but say I was able to strike up random conversation in a bookstore or something. After talking for about 5-10 mins how exactly do you leave with a number close without sounding like a weirdo/creep?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Scars

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Your fear of coming off as a "weirdo/creep" is holding you back man. You're a MAN that isn't afraid to portray his sexuality to the world. You need to go up and talk to these woman whether they know what your intentions are or not. You strike up a random conversation with an attractive girl, it wasn't chance, she knows what's up. Who cares? Being a man means you're not afraid of your sexuality. You act like having a d!ck is a bad thing. Go out and use it. And whats with this "theoretical" question BS, why the don't you talk to woman hm?
 

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Scars said:
Your fear of coming off as a "weirdo/creep" is holding you back man. You're a MAN that isn't afraid to portray his sexuality to the world. You need to go up and talk to these woman whether they know what your intentions are or not. You strike up a random conversation with an attractive girl, it wasn't chance, she knows what's up. Who cares? Being a man means you're not afraid of your sexuality. You act like having a d!ck is a bad thing. Go out and use it. And whats with this "theoretical" question BS, why the don't you talk to woman hm?
This is assuming I'm already having a non-creppy conversation with the woman. What exactly can I say to transition to number close without looking like weirdo/creep?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhtRbt

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doesn't matter how long you talk for. Doesn't matter what you talk about. When you want to end the conversation, say "hey I gotta get going, but whats your phone number?"
 
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