This of course is completely theoretical since I don't talk to women, but say I was able to strike up random conversation in a bookstore or something. After talking for about 5-10 mins how exactly do you leave with a number close without sounding like a weirdo/creep?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When/How do casually number close?
- Thread starter HardTimes
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Your fear of coming off as a "weirdo/creep" is holding you back man. You're a MAN that isn't afraid to portray his sexuality to the world. You need to go up and talk to these woman whether they know what your intentions are or not. You strike up a random conversation with an attractive girl, it wasn't chance, she knows what's up. Who cares? Being a man means you're not afraid of your sexuality. You act like having a d!ck is a bad thing. Go out and use it. And whats with this "theoretical" question BS, why the don't you talk to woman hm?
Count Chocola
Banned
How do you number close, when you don't have the car to take them on a date, or follow up?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.