"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

When Guys Try to Amog You - How do you handle?

MissouriMark

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2021
Messages
81
Reaction score
47
Age
45
At the end of the day, I would always blame the woman and not the other dude if the woman you're talking to becomes more interested in him over you.

It doesn't matter if it's a woman you just started talking to, your girlfriend, or even your wife. If she starts showing signs of interest towards another guy instead of you, that's on her. Of course if she WAS your girlfriend or wife instead of some woman you just met and she does that, then you have a whole different problem on your hands.

But if the woman tells the man she's not interested and he keeps harassing her no matter what your relation is with her, that's a different story. Then it is on him and then it's time for you to step in especially if you're more serious with the woman.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Reyaj

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 19, 2002
Messages
3,221
Reaction score
378
Age
48
Location
Northern CALI USA
Exactly. Ultimately, it’s on her.

You can “blame” the dude all you want, but she didn’t have to receptive to him. She chose to.
From what I remember the guy grabbed her face and turned it to him. Then she said something like sorry my friend is annoying.. I don't remember if it was slightly before or after this.. my feeling at the time was that she didn't want to upset him.
 
Top