"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When Guys Try to Amog You - How do you handle?

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At the end of the day, I would always blame the woman and not the other dude if the woman you're talking to becomes more interested in him over you.

It doesn't matter if it's a woman you just started talking to, your girlfriend, or even your wife. If she starts showing signs of interest towards another guy instead of you, that's on her. Of course if she WAS your girlfriend or wife instead of some woman you just met and she does that, then you have a whole different problem on your hands.

But if the woman tells the man she's not interested and he keeps harassing her no matter what your relation is with her, that's a different story. Then it is on him and then it's time for you to step in especially if you're more serious with the woman.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mike32ct said:
Exactly. Ultimately, it’s on her.

You can “blame” the dude all you want, but she didn’t have to receptive to him. She chose to.
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From what I remember the guy grabbed her face and turned it to him. Then she said something like sorry my friend is annoying.. I don't remember if it was slightly before or after this.. my feeling at the time was that she didn't want to upset him.
 
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