"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When girls start to make small talk ..

SealTeamSix

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Is that IOI?

Today .. this lady .. looks about early 30s .. I am 28 .. anyways ..
I was getting into elevator to get to my office .. there she was .. waiting for elevator .. I insisted her to go in 1st .. As she walks in, she says, "We seemed to have same lunch time .." .. I said .. "We do??",

then she said, "Yeah .. I mean when I am at elevator, you are too .. " .. I said .. "We are?" .. (i guess i was confused .. )

Then I made comment about weather, then she replied. made her comment about her pulse etc .. As I getting off the elevator, I said something .. and she still reponded ..

Also .. I was facing door and she was 3 feet away to my right but facing me.. usually people face door to watch LCD screen in the elevator.. Whenever i talk .. she looked at me too ..

I have seen this woman .. here and there around work place .. What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chicksrock

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yea I think so...

To Help you Improve Your game try this:
to be DJ you got to just assume IOI's... I get them all the time and I think NOTHING OF IT...
You have to raise you standards....
just keep running game on all women...

The only IOI that you should take is if she Kisses you...

so stop mental masturbating on small meaningless shyt...

and move on to get into this woman's pants..
that's your role as a man on this planet!

GOOD LUCK! :)
 

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Sounds like interest to me and more importantly, she has saved you the hassle of the approach. You have the perfect opportunity with her now, just by chatting.

When women are interested, they make it easy for a guy, and she made it easy for you and even gave you an opportunity to ask her to lunch ("same lunch time").

But you need to work on your small talk a little. Ask her a few trivial questions next time and get things moving.
 

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I am usually pretty good at making small talk when I initiate it .. but when someone starts it 1st .. then I catch off guard and get confused .. as in this case .. but next time i see her .. i am gonna make sure she giggle the fucc out ..
 

Fatality

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I don't know about this being a sign of interest. I think she was just making conversation. Ask her out, that is the only way to know for sure. Just because a woman makes conversation doesn't necessarily mean she likes you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don_Marko

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By now she probabbly thinks you are a majour AFC who hasn't talked to a woman in years....
 

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Originally posted by Don_Marko
By now she probabbly thinks you are a majour AFC who hasn't talked to a woman in years....
Which I really don't give fucc about ; )
 
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