"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When girls "set-up" the kiss.

Elf2

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I have recently been in a couple situations at a party or having a conversation with a girl who I previously met have known a little while and have run into this scenario.

We will be standing alone together just talking about to leave to go somewhere and we're both drunk and the girl will put her face right in front of mine, looking up at me, so its almost like shes pretty much setting it up for me to kiss her.

What should I do in these situations? I have a feeling the girls are testing me to see if I make a move and if I do they will pull away.

What are your suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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This... is the single WORST case... of thinking too hard... ever, EVER... to be recorded on Sosuave.com.

Just fvcking kiss her man.
 

DonJuan11

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Elf2 said:
We will be standing alone together just talking about to leave to go somewhere and we're both drunk and the girl will put her face right in front of mine, looking up at me, so its almost like shes pretty much setting it up for me to kiss her.

What should I do in these situations?
It's too difficult to get a kiss, can you guys make it easier for me?

It's too easy to get a kiss, can you guys make it more difficult for me?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MooseGod

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omg you have a sick and twisted world perspective little man! :crackup:

He who hesitates is lost. If you want to get any better with chicks you'll need to learn to think on your feet. That's an obvious come-on and if she does for some reason pull away, just pull away yourself giving her the same look she gives you (feigning disgust and horror or something). But I'm 99% sure you wouldn't have been rejected.

And you don't get a kiss, they have to earn one. If you know what you're doing, it will instantly make any girl putty in your hands. Women are not hard to figure out, and they're all pretty much the same, unless you find one that stands apart, then that's GF material most likely.
 

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Look dude sometimes girls are thrilled by the guys who are capable of resisting them,not giving them what they want,and making things slowly.
If you dont want to rush things good.Dont take the initiative,let her crave for it.But if she kisses you dont pull back.Not that I think you would...
 

Thatfeel21

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mannn if you're at a party and shes drunk and she leans in...dog, you better kiss her, eff that pull her to the side for a full blown out make out session then lead her upstairs, if strict isolation ain't possible, then you better be a man and make a move
 
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