"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When girls "set-up" the kiss.

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I have recently been in a couple situations at a party or having a conversation with a girl who I previously met have known a little while and have run into this scenario.

We will be standing alone together just talking about to leave to go somewhere and we're both drunk and the girl will put her face right in front of mine, looking up at me, so its almost like shes pretty much setting it up for me to kiss her.

What should I do in these situations? I have a feeling the girls are testing me to see if I make a move and if I do they will pull away.

What are your suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This... is the single WORST case... of thinking too hard... ever, EVER... to be recorded on Sosuave.com.

Just fvcking kiss her man.
 
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Elf2 said:
We will be standing alone together just talking about to leave to go somewhere and we're both drunk and the girl will put her face right in front of mine, looking up at me, so its almost like shes pretty much setting it up for me to kiss her.

What should I do in these situations?
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It's too difficult to get a kiss, can you guys make it easier for me?

It's too easy to get a kiss, can you guys make it more difficult for me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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omg you have a sick and twisted world perspective little man! :crackup:

He who hesitates is lost. If you want to get any better with chicks you'll need to learn to think on your feet. That's an obvious come-on and if she does for some reason pull away, just pull away yourself giving her the same look she gives you (feigning disgust and horror or something). But I'm 99% sure you wouldn't have been rejected.

And you don't get a kiss, they have to earn one. If you know what you're doing, it will instantly make any girl putty in your hands. Women are not hard to figure out, and they're all pretty much the same, unless you find one that stands apart, then that's GF material most likely.
 
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Look dude sometimes girls are thrilled by the guys who are capable of resisting them,not giving them what they want,and making things slowly.
If you dont want to rush things good.Dont take the initiative,let her crave for it.But if she kisses you dont pull back.Not that I think you would...
 
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mannn if you're at a party and shes drunk and she leans in...dog, you better kiss her, eff that pull her to the side for a full blown out make out session then lead her upstairs, if strict isolation ain't possible, then you better be a man and make a move
 
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