"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When GF ask your advice on her male friend's relationship problem

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Fela Kuti

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What to say if your GF ask your advice on her male friend's relationship problem? I always hesitate to answer because I'm afraid I will expose the DJ skills to her so she'll be resistant to it :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Why would your girlfriend even ask you! Does she have any girl-friends or just guy friends?
 
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If he's your friend too then you should be relaying message's to one another not having your girlfriend as the go in between.

That way you don't make your girl aware of the DJ tactics.

Problem solved.
 
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Someone Much cooler

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its best to listen rather than giving advice alot of the time the person with the problem already knows the answer to the problem, they just need someone to listen to em.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Play the Game

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Ever hear of "smoke and mirrors"? Just tell her that he should be himself or any other crap girls tell guys.
 
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