"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When GF ask your advice on her male friend's relationship problem

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Fela Kuti

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What to say if your GF ask your advice on her male friend's relationship problem? I always hesitate to answer because I'm afraid I will expose the DJ skills to her so she'll be resistant to it :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Why would your girlfriend even ask you! Does she have any girl-friends or just guy friends?
 
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KontrollerX

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If he's your friend too then you should be relaying message's to one another not having your girlfriend as the go in between.

That way you don't make your girl aware of the DJ tactics.

Problem solved.
 
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Someone Much cooler

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its best to listen rather than giving advice alot of the time the person with the problem already knows the answer to the problem, they just need someone to listen to em.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Play the Game

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Ever hear of "smoke and mirrors"? Just tell her that he should be himself or any other crap girls tell guys.
 
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