"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When GF ask your advice on her male friend's relationship problem

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Fela Kuti

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What to say if your GF ask your advice on her male friend's relationship problem? I always hesitate to answer because I'm afraid I will expose the DJ skills to her so she'll be resistant to it :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Why would your girlfriend even ask you! Does she have any girl-friends or just guy friends?
 
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If he's your friend too then you should be relaying message's to one another not having your girlfriend as the go in between.

That way you don't make your girl aware of the DJ tactics.

Problem solved.
 
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Someone Much cooler

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its best to listen rather than giving advice alot of the time the person with the problem already knows the answer to the problem, they just need someone to listen to em.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Play the Game

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Ever hear of "smoke and mirrors"? Just tell her that he should be himself or any other crap girls tell guys.
 
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