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When does ****INESS become too much

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Ive been teasin girls and being funny for so long that i use it so much and it ruins my efforts. So i need help and i want to know how to tell when the ****INESS is getting too far

[Same goes for being FUNNY]

An example of ****INESS:

In a school environment, if a girl wants to get pass you through a door and you jus stop there to tease her and she "hits you" and she knows your fooling around, when is the right time to stop.

Another example would be when your calling a female a "little girl", and she says stop calling me that! Is it enough? Should I stop? or would that show how much of a wussy i am

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Work on your natural instinct, it all depends on that.
 

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Tell you the truth... to teasing, there usually is a zone where to hit, and where not to.

It varies from girl to girl, but you probably have to tell from her tone of voice, what she says and stuff.

I myself, have never taken teasing that far to where someone said something like that.
 

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DVD, yeah im always ****y and sarcastic. Just be careful because you can loose youself if your nervous or trying to hard and become a complete ass with your ****y moves. There is a big difference between being called a 'jerk' or 'dork' and being called a complete *******. So just watch youself and push them a little bit but if they are having a bad day or not in the mood, try another technique. If they hit you, and beleive me ive been hit hard before - than its usually a good sign and youve got interest.

Just remember if you use the same thing all the time they just get used to it and bored, vary your act. Be unpredictable but just dont get pulled down by it. Keep up your ****yness and just rely on natural instinct.

If your gut tells you they really arent enjoying it, divert somehow but dont show your damaged by their response.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by English_Bloke
There is a big difference between being called a 'jerk' or 'dork' and being called a complete *******.

doesn't "dork" mean nerdy, geeky or something like that?!
 

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If i relied on my insticts i wouldnt be here asking this question....i need an alternative answer

[If someone could give an example that'd be great]
 

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when girls say "your just rude" and stop talking to you.

Been there done that, tone it down and dont get too ****y at the start, main a constant----
 

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....when the girl stops laughin or when she gets mad
 

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