"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When does ****INESS become too much

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Ive been teasin girls and being funny for so long that i use it so much and it ruins my efforts. So i need help and i want to know how to tell when the ****INESS is getting too far

[Same goes for being FUNNY]

An example of ****INESS:

In a school environment, if a girl wants to get pass you through a door and you jus stop there to tease her and she "hits you" and she knows your fooling around, when is the right time to stop.

Another example would be when your calling a female a "little girl", and she says stop calling me that! Is it enough? Should I stop? or would that show how much of a wussy i am

- Paul (Everlasting DJ)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Work on your natural instinct, it all depends on that.
 

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Tell you the truth... to teasing, there usually is a zone where to hit, and where not to.

It varies from girl to girl, but you probably have to tell from her tone of voice, what she says and stuff.

I myself, have never taken teasing that far to where someone said something like that.
 

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DVD, yeah im always ****y and sarcastic. Just be careful because you can loose youself if your nervous or trying to hard and become a complete ass with your ****y moves. There is a big difference between being called a 'jerk' or 'dork' and being called a complete *******. So just watch youself and push them a little bit but if they are having a bad day or not in the mood, try another technique. If they hit you, and beleive me ive been hit hard before - than its usually a good sign and youve got interest.

Just remember if you use the same thing all the time they just get used to it and bored, vary your act. Be unpredictable but just dont get pulled down by it. Keep up your ****yness and just rely on natural instinct.

If your gut tells you they really arent enjoying it, divert somehow but dont show your damaged by their response.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by English_Bloke
There is a big difference between being called a 'jerk' or 'dork' and being called a complete *******.

doesn't "dork" mean nerdy, geeky or something like that?!
 

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If i relied on my insticts i wouldnt be here asking this question....i need an alternative answer

[If someone could give an example that'd be great]
 

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when girls say "your just rude" and stop talking to you.

Been there done that, tone it down and dont get too ****y at the start, main a constant----
 

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....when the girl stops laughin or when she gets mad
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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