"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When does ****INESS become too much

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Ive been teasin girls and being funny for so long that i use it so much and it ruins my efforts. So i need help and i want to know how to tell when the ****INESS is getting too far

[Same goes for being FUNNY]

An example of ****INESS:

In a school environment, if a girl wants to get pass you through a door and you jus stop there to tease her and she "hits you" and she knows your fooling around, when is the right time to stop.

Another example would be when your calling a female a "little girl", and she says stop calling me that! Is it enough? Should I stop? or would that show how much of a wussy i am

- Paul (Everlasting DJ)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Work on your natural instinct, it all depends on that.
 

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Tell you the truth... to teasing, there usually is a zone where to hit, and where not to.

It varies from girl to girl, but you probably have to tell from her tone of voice, what she says and stuff.

I myself, have never taken teasing that far to where someone said something like that.
 

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DVD, yeah im always ****y and sarcastic. Just be careful because you can loose youself if your nervous or trying to hard and become a complete ass with your ****y moves. There is a big difference between being called a 'jerk' or 'dork' and being called a complete *******. So just watch youself and push them a little bit but if they are having a bad day or not in the mood, try another technique. If they hit you, and beleive me ive been hit hard before - than its usually a good sign and youve got interest.

Just remember if you use the same thing all the time they just get used to it and bored, vary your act. Be unpredictable but just dont get pulled down by it. Keep up your ****yness and just rely on natural instinct.

If your gut tells you they really arent enjoying it, divert somehow but dont show your damaged by their response.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by English_Bloke
There is a big difference between being called a 'jerk' or 'dork' and being called a complete *******.

doesn't "dork" mean nerdy, geeky or something like that?!
 

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If i relied on my insticts i wouldnt be here asking this question....i need an alternative answer

[If someone could give an example that'd be great]
 

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when girls say "your just rude" and stop talking to you.

Been there done that, tone it down and dont get too ****y at the start, main a constant----
 

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....when the girl stops laughin or when she gets mad
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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